Mengais V a l i d a s i.

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 16 / 01 / 20

Tanpa sadar, salah satu tujuan utama hidup kita adalah untuk menerima validasi dari orang lain. Pembenaran dari orang lain. Persetujuan dari orang lain. 

Validasi juga menurutku dapat berarti pernyataan /tanda terima bahwa kita valid/layak. Tanda terima yang diberikan oleh masyarakat kepada kita. 

Jika kita berbeda atau tidak cocok dengan masyarakat/lingkungan tersebut maka kita akan merasa terkucilkan, kita tidak di validasi.

Itu sebabnya kadang kita rela melakukan apapun untuk dapat menjadi bagian dari masyarakat/lingkungan tersebut (/untuk mendapatkan validasi). Disini dimana kita harus hati2. Kita dapat melakukan HAL apapun, yaitu positif... maupun negatif...

Kadang kita harus berhati2 jika ingin berubah untuk mendapatkan validasi. 

Orang berlomba2 untuk mendapatkan validasi agar merasa diterima dalam kehidupan ini. Tapi ingat, hidup kita bukan cuma tentang mendapatkan validasi dari orang lain, tapi juga dari kita sendiri. ~


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